That’s why, when we meet a perfectly normal person, who seems genuinely interested in us, our minds keep going back to the partner, who mistreated us. The partner who is constantly being left, develops addiction-like cravings for the high intensity feelings that normal relationships just can’t provide. There’s quick pursuit, love bombing, quick intimacy, followed by an even swifter departure. This type of relationship is characterized by its fast pace.
Each person never has both feet in the relationship at the same time. These peaks and valleys are caused by repeated break-ups and repeated reconciliations, where your emotions are always soaring and crashing. In my blog entitled Are You Mistaking Intensity for Intimacy? I describe how unhealthy relationships go through cycles of extreme highs and extreme lows and that a normal relationship just doesn’t match the same level of intensity. They will meet a really great guy, or girl that they really wanted to like, but just couldn’t and they explain it away as having no chemistry, or they’ll say, “I’m just not feeling it.” There is a reason for that. Some people in this situation will jump right back into the dating pool, hoping for a replacement, or at the very least a distraction. They don’t care about why they left, or the manner in which they left, they just want them back.
They are ready and willing to accept any lame excuse. They will try anything to dull the pain and they spend every waking minute pining and hoping that the object of their obsession will come back. Unhealthy people get stuck and can’t seem to find their way out of their grief. People, who know their worth, know that the sun will come out again and they will love again in time. They can get sad and emotional when it ends, but they’re not going to slip into a major depressive episode. Their whole lives aren’t dependent upon the other person. They have lives inside their relationships and outside of their relationships. The difference between a normal, healthy break up and an unhealthy break up is that in a normal relationship, individuals retain their own identity. It’s normal to grieve the ending of a relationship. Some relationships however, seem to never end and leave us feeling like we’ll never get over them. They’re usually unpleasant, but eventually we move on and begin a new relationship with someone else. Continued abuse of our services will cause your IP address to be blocked indefinitely.We’ve all experienced a break up or two at some point in our lives. Please fill out the CAPTCHA below and then click the button to indicate that you agree to these terms. If you wish to be unblocked, you must agree that you will take immediate steps to rectify this issue. If you do not understand what is causing this behavior, please contact us here. If you promise to stop (by clicking the Agree button below), we'll unblock your connection for now, but we will immediately re-block it if we detect additional bad behavior. Overusing our search engine with a very large number of searches in a very short amount of time.Using a badly configured (or badly written) browser add-on for blocking content.Running a "scraper" or "downloader" program that either does not identify itself or uses fake headers to elude detection.Using a script or add-on that scans GameFAQs for box and screen images (such as an emulator front-end), while overloading our search engine.
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